8 years ago
Wednesday, September 18, 2013
'Story Of My Life' : I'm 35-years-old But No Man To Marry Me; I'm Tired - Lady Laments
This lady needs urgent help, age is no longer on her side and she's scared she might never get married.
Read her story below:
"I am 35 years old and even though seeing other peoples wedding bring joy to my heart, I have gotten to that stage in life where I know now for sure this will never happen for me.
I have been hoping for many years, and it’s not that I don’t have suitors, I am far from unattractive, but I just can’t find that guy. No one is perfect I know this, but there are certain things I am looking for in a life partner I haven’t found yet.
I believe in being friends above everything else, the shared ideals (religious, life etc) and then a connection.
The physical isn’t of great importance, but the men I am meeting these days I can’t even have a connection with and trust me I have tried.
I have been in relationships in the past, but it’s always that I gave too little or I gave too much. I am tired it shouldn’t be this hard.
I have all but given up but I want to have kids desperately, but I don’t want to be a single mom (nothing against single mothers), my mom and grand mother were single mothers and I felt their struggle I wouldn’t want to go through that. I guess I am the one with the problem…
I am tired of hoping, praying, and wishing. I have come to accept this more than likely won’t happen for me, I see a lot of single girls are going through the same struggle, and it seems hopeless. I want to be married, to a man I love, a man with whom I can grow with."
Am desperate to get married but to the right man too. So please what should i do next?
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There is one thing I now realize about marriage. Connection that you want can be built in the matrimonial home, love can also be built in the matrimonial home. Stop waiting for the man with connection and love, hook up with a man that can take care of you needs and you guys get married and go build your love and connection @home. That's my own stand point towards marriage
ReplyDeleteHi.am a single lady like you and people around me have given up hope for me but I haven't and I urge you not to either and don,t settle either.sometimes we give up just when the solution to our problems is about to present itself.if u r a born again christian I urge u 2 pray always concerning what u want in life and just believe it wil happen.encourage urself with Gods word,ask Him to direct your path.All d things you wil b going through now wil prepare u 2 receive Gods will for ur life.Nothing good comes easy
ReplyDeletekeep trusting God. No time is late.
ReplyDeleteGod will make a way in the wilderness for even when there seems to be no way. He will make rivers flow in the desert.
ReplyDeleteWhen it happens, it will be like film trick, it will be like a dream. Dn't give up. God is never late. He is actually clearing the bottlenecks that would choked u if u married to a wrong person. The right one will come, and when he comes, you alone, will run to church and testify giving God all the glory.
Do not give up bcos God has nt given up on u. Stay strong. Don't be desperate bcos no decision made in desperacy can ever be right. U are very close to ur miracle. Its too late to give up. Hold on a little more.
ReplyDeleteNothing is Impossible with God. Stand strong and be of good cheer cos there is time for everything under the sun. Meanwhile remember that delay is not denial. There is purpose for every situation and finally All Things Works Together for Good "Just to make you strong"
ReplyDeleteDestiny can be delay but it can never be denied, God has his own purpose towards you there are so many ladies out there with the same situation, but if you are steadfast to God your husband will surely locate you just put your trust in God and it shall be well with you.
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